The new year is usually really tough for me. It often highlights for me what I haven’t done and what’s left to do to get where I think I should be. I’ve spent many a new year agonizing over not being in the best place for my age when it comes to relationships, finances, career etc. This year feels different. And not because I suddenly feel very put together or on top of my game. But I have started to let go of where I’m “supposed” to be. I started letting go years ago, but I finally feel it. Also,…