Birthdays are always so interesting. We get this time each year to take stock and think about what’s working and maybe beat ourselves up over what’s not. And think all the things like what am I doing, how did I get here, why haven’t I gone further by now, I should’ve cleaned the house before today, my clutter pile is growing, what is that noise in my car, will I ever get my kitchen outlets or that bathroom leak fixed, what would my child have been like if I had one, why do I have so many plastic bags, how did…